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Biography
Ashley Olivia Nelson is the founder of Learning About Grief, an organization that has touched the lives of over 30,000 people across more than 50 countries. A two-time widow before the age of 35, Ashley brings both lived experience and professional insight to her work in grief and identity care.
Since 2013, Ashley has worked across healthcare, mental health, life insurance, and the funeral care industries to help people reconnect with who they are after loss and major life transitions. Her work has appeared in POPSUGAR, Marie Claire, Shape, Next Avenue, and she is the author of The Identity Reset: A Guide to Discovering Yourself After Loss, Change, and Survival (Wiley Publishing).
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Signature Talks and Interviews
Grief has a way of uprooting everything you thought you knew about yourself. The life you imagined feels unreachable, and the person you were no longer feels familiar. The question isn’t just, “What do I do now?” but, “Who am I now?”
In her talk, Who Am I After Loss, Ashley guides participants through the layered process of rediscovering themselves after loss. Through compassionate insight, she helps you explore who you were, who you are, and who you’re becoming. This talk will leave you with a renewed sense of possibility for life after loss.
Those inside the grief community often get confused about the five stages of grief. It doesn’t seem to fully resonate. That’s because the stages came from research done by observing people who were dying — not those grieving the dead.
In her signature talk, Is it Normal?, Ashley debunks the myth of the five stages of grief and what “normal grief” is. Participants will compassionately understand what heart posture to hold instead.
Grief isn’t always tied to death. It shows up in the spaces where trauma, unmet expectations, or even life transitions leave their mark. But many people don’t recognize this grief for what it is, which can make the experience even more isolating.
In her signature talk, The Hidden Faces of Grief, Ashley explores the grief that often accompanies trauma and non-death losses, helping participants identify these feelings and understand what they mean. You’ll walk away with a clearer view of how grief shows up in unexpected places and how to hold space for it—whether for yourself or others.
Grief doesn’t stop at the office door, yet many workplaces don’t know how to support grieving employees or understand how loss impacts productivity. This leaves employees feeling unseen, and managers unsure how to respond.
In her talk, The Emotional Weight of Grief in the Workplace, Ashley breaks down how grief shows up in professional spaces, the barriers it creates, and how leaders can offer meaningful support. Participants will learn how to create an environment that values both compassion and accountability.
Life is hard as a widow, but twice? What’s the journey of being a widow, learning to love again, and finding hope for the future?
Ashley gives the widow community heart-centered guidance on surviving the death of their soulmate, whether they were dating, engaged, or married.
Because many companies and professionals aren’t sure how to connect with the bereaved community, they miss out on key opportunities to build their businesses and serve others.
Ashley teaches the critical factors needed to resonate with vulnerable populations. You’ll learn how to implement an empathy-first approach as you build customer and client relationships.